Merry Christmas!

I realize I should be wishing you “Happy Holidays” but this year I have decided to give up on all that nonsense. If you are not a Christian, please accept this greeting as one of goodwill as it is intended and not as the gun draw some may imply.

No matter what your beliefs, everyone feels a little more deeply this time of year. Whether it is the feeling of joy, love and happiness or the feeling of loss and loneliness. This is the time of year to come together and support one another.

This has caused me to ponder the reason for my own existence. As a business owner, albeit a new and struggling one, there must be more I can do for my community and the people who live here. Since I had the choice this year to either convince my own children they have been too naughty for a visit from Santa or explain to them the real reason for a lack of gifts, becoming a Secret Santa , although a more joyous experience I can not imagine, is a financial impossibility.

Thus the Christmas Book Drive was born. While planning this, an idea born of Give-A-Kid-A-Book, I failed to take into account the limitations of my community as a whole. Although 40 donated books is a start, overall my community does not have the financial ability to help others when they are in need themselves.

Based on the Socks Save Christmas Blog , the idea of Sorrows for Socks has been bouncing around in my overworked brain. The idea is simple – encourage area angels to donate the most outrageous socks imaginable and those in despair can stop in and choose a pair to brighten their day. Crazy idea, I know. The largest hurdle would be the same as in the Christmas Book Drive – finding enough donors. In addition, when I am most in need of the comfort of socks, I am in no mood to leave the house. How would I find those most in need of the psychological hug?

I’m counting on you, dear readers, to share your ideas on becoming an angel not only this time of year, but all year long.

2007 Bestsellers

The holidays are fast approaching and I finally have about two minutes to catch my breath. Two minutes really is not enough time for even me to come up with a creative blog idea so this week I'm going to cheat. The 2007 Book Sense Bestsellers list has been released, so my question for this week is:

How many books on the 2007 Book Sense Bestsellers list have you read and which would you recommend?

2007 Book Sense Bestsellers from sales at independent bookstores with Book Sense nationwide. For the Book Sense store nearest you, call 1-888-BOOKSENSEor visit www.booksense.com

TRADE PAPERBACK FICTION

1. Water for Elephants
Sara Gruen, Algonquin, $13.95, 9781565125605

2. The Memory Keeper's Daughter
Kim Edwards, Penguin, $14, 9780143037149

3. The Kite Runner
Khaled Hosseini, Riverhead, $15, 9781594480003

4. The Road
Cormac McCarthy, Vintage, $14.95, 9780307387899

5. Snow Flower and the Secret Fan
Lisa See, Random House, $13.95, 9780812968064

6. Suite Francaise
Irene Nemirovsky, Vintage, $14.95, 9781400096275

7. The Inheritance of Loss
Kiran Desai, Grove, $14, 9780802142818

8. The Alchemist
Paulo Coelho, HarperOne, $13.95, 9780061122415

9. The History of Love
Nicole Krauss, Norton, $13.95, 9780393328622

10. My Sister's Keeper
Jodi Picoult, Washington Square, $15, 9780743454537

11. Middlesex
Jeffrey Eugenides, Picador, $15, 9780312427733

12. The Emperor's Children
Claire Messud, Vintage, $14.95, 9780307276667

13. The Namesake
Jhumpa Lahiri, Mariner, $14, 9780618485222

14. The Whistling Season
Ivan Doig, Harvest, $14, 9780156031646

15. Astrid and Veronika
Linda Olsson, Penguin, $14, 9780143038078



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TRADE PAPERBACK NONFICTION

1. Eat, Pray, Love
Elizabeth Gilbert, Penguin, $15, 9780143038412

2. Three Cups of Tea
Greg Mortenson, David Oliver Relin, Penguin, $15, 9780143038252

3. The Glass Castle
Jeannette Walls, Scribner, $15, 9780743247542

4. The Year of Magical Thinking
Joan Didion, Vintage, $13.95, 9781400078431

5. The Worst Hard Time
Timothy Egan, Mariner, $14.95, 9780618773473

6. Into the Wild
Jon Krakauer, Anchor, $13.95, 9780307387172

7. The Devil in the White City
Erik Larson, Vintage, $14.95, 9780375725609

8. The Measure of a Man
Sidney Poitier, HarperOne, $14.95, 9780061357909

9. Dreams From My Father
Barack Obama, Three Rivers, $14.95, 9781400082773

10. Blink
Malcolm Gladwell, Back Bay, $15.99, 9780316010665

11. Mayflower
Nathaniel Philbrick, Penguin, $16, 9780143111979

12. The Omnivore's Dilemma
Michael Pollan, Penguin, $16, 9780143038580

13. Night
Elie Wiesel, FSG, $9, 9780374500016

14. Mountains Beyond Mountains
Tracy Kidder, Random House, $15.95, 9780812973013

15. 90 Minutes in Heaven
Don Piper, Revell, $12.99, 9780800759490



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HARDCOVER FICTION

1. A Thousand Splendid Suns
Khaled Hosseini, Riverhead, $25.95, 9781594489501

2. The Yiddish Policemen's Union
Michael Chabon, Harper, $26.95, 9780007149827

3. The Children of Hurin
J.R.R. Tolkien, Houghton Mifflin, $26, 9780618894642

4. For One More Day
Mitch Albom, Hyperion, $21.95, 9781401303273

5. Nineteen Minutes
Jodi Picoult, Atria, $26.95, 9780743496728

6. On Chesil Beach
Ian McEwan, Nan Talese, $22, 9780385522403

7. Lean Mean Thirteen
Janet Evanovich, St. Martin's, $27.95, 9780312349493

8. The Good Husband of Zebra Drive
Alexander McCall Smith, Pantheon, $21.95, 9780375422737

9. Playing for Pizza
John Grisham, Doubleday, $21.95, 9780385525008

10. What Is the What
Dave Eggers, McSweeney's, $26, 9781932416640

11. The Maytrees
Annie Dillard, Harper, $24.95, 9780061239533

12. Water for Elephants
Sara Gruen, Algonquin, $23.95, 9781565124998

13. Bridge of Sighs
Richard Russo, Knopf, $26.95, 9780375414954

14. Run
Ann Patchett, Harper, $25.95, 9780061340635

15. Plum Lovin'
Janet Evanovich, St. Martin's, $16.95, 9780312306342



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HARDCOVER NONFICTION
1. The Secret
Rhonda Byrne (Ed.), Atria/Beyond Words, $23.95, 9781582701707

2. The Dangerous Book for Boys
Conn Iggulden, Hal Iggulden, Collins, $24.95, 9780061243585

3. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle
Barbara and Camille Kingsolver, Steven Hopp, Harper, $26.95, 9780060852559

4. I Feel Bad About My Neck
Nora Ephron, Knopf, $21.95, 9780307264558

5. The Audacity of Hope
Barack Obama, Crown, $25, 9780307237699

6. A Long Way Gone
Ishmael Beah, Sarah Crichton/FSG, $22, 9780374105235

7. Marley & Me
John Grogan, Morrow, $21.95, 9780060817084

8. God Is Not Great
Christopher Hitchens, Twelve, $24.99, 9780446579803

9. The Assault on Reason
Al Gore, Penguin Press, $25.95, 9781594201226

10. You: On a Diet
Michael F.Roizen, M.D., Mehmet C.Oz, M.D., Free Press, $25, 9780743292542

11. Einstein
Walter Isaacson, S&S, $32, 9780743264730

12. I Am America (and So Can You!)
Stephen Colbert, Grand Central, $26.99, 9780446580502

13. Deceptively Delicious
Jessica Seinfeld, Collins, $24.95, 9780061251344

14. The Omnivore's Dilemma
Michael Pollan, Penguin Press, $26.95, 9781594200823

15. The Best Life Diet
Bob Greene, S&S, $26, 9781416540663



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CHILDREN'S FICTION

1. Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows
J.K. Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $34.99, 9780545010221

2. Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince
J.K. Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $9.99, 9780439785969

3. Twilight
Stephenie Meyer, Little Brown, $9.99, 9780316015844

4. Eclipse
Stephenie Meyer, Little Brown, $18.99, 9780316160209

5. Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
J.K. Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $9.99, 9780439358071

6. Bridge to Terabithia
Katherine Paterson, HarperEntertainment, $6.99, 9780061227288

7. Forever in Blue
Ann Brashares, Delacorte, $18.99, 9780385729369

8. New Moon
Stephenie Meyer, Megan Tingley, $18.99, 9780316160193

9. Eragon
Christopher Paolini, Laurel-Leaf, $6.99, 9780440238485

10. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone
J.K.Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $6.99, 9780590353427

11. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets
J.K.Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $8.99, 9780439064873

12. Eldest
Christopher Paolini, Knopf, $12.99, 9780375840401

13. The Golden Compass
Philip Pullman, Laurel-Leaf, $7.50, 9780440238133

14. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban
J.K.Rowling, Scholastic/Arthur A. Levine, $8.99, 9780439136365

15. The Lightning Thief
Rick Riordan, Miramax, $7.99, 9780786838653



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CHILDREN'S ILLUSTRATED

1. Goodnight Moon
Margaret Wise Brown, Clement Hurd (Illus.), Harper, $8.99, 9780694003617

2. Where the Wild Things Are
Maurice Sendak, Harper, $17.95, 9780060254926

3. Fancy Nancy and the Posh Puppy
Jane O'Connor, Robin Preiss Glasser (Illus.), Harper, $16.99, 9780060542139

4. Fancy Nancy
Jane O'Connor, Robin Preiss Glasser (Illus.), Harper, $16.99, 9780060542092

5. Oh, the Places You'll Go!
Dr. Seuss, Random House, $17, 9780679805274

6. Dog
Matthew Van Fleet, Brian Stanton (Illus.), S&S, $14.99, 9781416941378

7. Flotsam
David Wiesner, Clarion, $17, 9780618194575

8. Pat the Bunny
Dorothy Kunhardt, Golden, $9.99, 9780307120007

9. Love You Forever
Robert Munsch, Sheila McGraw (Illus.), Firefly, $5.95, 9780920668375

10. Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?
Bill Martin, Eric Carle (Illus.), Holt, $7.95, 9780805047905

11. Good Night, Gorilla
Peggy Rathmann, Putnam, $7.99, 9780399230035

12. Pirates Don't Change Diapers
Melinda Long, David Shannon (Illus.), Harcourt, $16, 9780152053536

13. Puff, the Magic Dragon
Peter Yarrow, Lenny Lipton, Sterling, $16.95, 9781402747823

14. Skippyjon Jones
Judith Schachner, Puffin, $5.99, 9780142404034

15. The Very Hungry Caterpillar
Eric Carle, Putnam, $10.99, 9780399226908

Socks Save Christmas

In storybooks, holidays are a time of peace and joy. Families come together from miles around to celebrate and the children’s excitement can hardly be contained. Reality may be a little different, however. Holidays can be a time of stress and money woes or of loneliness. For whatever reason, I have always struggled with the holiday blues, but I found some sure fire ways to make the season more bearable.

The first is by giving. No matter how bad things seem, there is always someone worse off. By giving of my money, time, or talent during the holiday season it helps me feel better about myself. This weekend is a gift wrap party at the store to wrap all the books generously donated by the community to less fortunate children. Check out what’s going on in your local area. You are sure to find organizations that desperately need your help whether to purchase or wrap gifts, cook food or deliver to the hungry, or to sing carols to the elderly. Be selfish this holiday season by making yourself feel great – GIVE!

Another great way to fight off the holiday blues is to read the satire Skipping Christmas by John Grisham. Sure, Luther and Nora Krank, a typical middle-aged American couple who are fed up with the overblown holiday traditions, are not unlike some of us. However, the problems and solutions are hysterical when they happen to someone else! You do not have to feel guilty about laughing at this fictional couple and the struggles they face. I could not help but laugh out loud and that is an unusual sound to hear from me this time of year.

When all else fails, the answer is socks. I believe the world would be a much happier place if everyone owned a pair of fuzzy purple socks or socks so thick you can barely squeeze them into your shoes. Even the worst of days can be turned around by wiggling into rainbow toe socks.

What about you? Do you have a sure fire way to beat the holiday blues?

Magic or Mayhem

The Teen Book Club selection for November was Will of the Empress by Tamora Pierce. The magical powers, which the main characters possess, led to quite a discussion - not only in the book group, but among family and friends as well. Without giving away too much information, I will admit that Tris's magic fascinates me the most. If you haven't read any of the Circle Opens or Circle of Magic quartets yet, I urge you to rush to your local independent bookstore to pick up the entire series for your winter reading enjoyment.

If I were fortunate enough to possess magical powers or super hero abilities, I would choose the ability to fly. Oh, to soar above the earth on velvet soft wings- I envy Max and the gang!

Another group member’s greatest wish is to read minds. I believe that would be very troubling. Would the complete silence drive me mad?

A family member would like to bring back the dead For One More Day. I would think it would be too difficult to have to say good-bye once again.

What about you? If you could possess one magical power,

which would you choose?

Matter of Life or Death

Since I was a little girl I have been reading a book. Not the same book, obviously. Taking this many decades to read a single book would show my lack of reading skills or motivation or both. I need to be reading a book at all times, though - my life depends on it.

Yes, you read that right and no, I am not crazy. Well, maybe I do have a few screws loose, as they say. You see, I have a theory. When the time comes for me to leave this world, I believe God will look down on me with pity and say “She’s in the middle of a book, I will let her finish before I take her Home.” That makes complete sense, does it not?

My nightstand is straining under the pile of books stacked there. If I should happen to turn the last page while reading in bed, it’s imperative that I start a new book immediately. Even if that means struggling to keep my eyes open long enough to read a single page. As long as I am reading a book I will live forever.

According to To Read or Not to Read: A Question of National Consequence, a new analysis of reading patterns in the U.S released by the National Endowment for the Arts (NEA) as a follow up to NEA's 2004 Reading at Risk, Americans are reading less. The study also revealed that the decline in reading has civic, social, and economic implications. Nearly two-thirds of employers ranked reading comprehension "very important" for high school graduates. Yet 38 percent consider most high school graduates deficient in this basic skill.

Americans are busy people. And yet - on average, Americans ages 15 to 24 spend almost two hours a day watching TV and only seven minutes of their daily leisure time on reading. This leads me to believe that no one has the desire to avoid the end of this life as much as I do. Which reminds me; I finished The Will of the Empress, which I will be discussing next Friday, over my morning coffee. I need to read the first chapter of Astrid & Veronika before I get mauled by a pack of frantic shoppers.

How about you? Do you read on a daily basis and if so, when? An hour every night before bed or ten minutes in the morning before rushing off to work? Do you read over your lunch hour or while waiting to pick the kids up from school?

Now Hiring?

I’m on a mission. That mission is to make people more aware of the impact of shopping locally. That is why I joined America Unchained, a national campaign of the American Business Alliance, which will be taking place tomorrow, Saturday November 17th. The goal is to encourage citizens to do any business they plan to do on that day only at locally owned independent businesses. Many people do not realize the impact this would have on their entire community. Only 13% of dollars spent with chains circulates locally, while 45% of dollars spent with hometown businesses circulates locally* . In a small town, such as the one where we live and work, many people drive to other cities half an hour or more away to do their shopping in the malls and discount stores. Leaving the county to shop or shopping online helps our community even less.

In order to show the impact shopping locally would have on our community, I decided to use the actual dollar amounts instead of just the percentages. To get those numbers, I contacted the executive director of our county’s Economic Development Corporation. This is where the story gets interesting.

He believes part of a shop locally effort should address a few issues, which I will now attempt to do.

1. The hours that the local businesses are open vs. the work location of their customers. “…For example, a mechanic or dry cleaner that closes at noon for lunch will not get customers to come in on their lunch hour. A business that closes at 5:00 won’t see people that work (outside of our community) until 5:00. There are 6,500 people that leave (our community) each day for work in another community. Some (community) businesses recognize that but most don’t…”

Since I always have something to say, I have two comments to make about this statement. First is the most obvious. 6,500 people leaving our community to work in another is exactly why we should be supporting local businesses. If there were more thriving businesses in our community more jobs would be created and less people would have to go elsewhere to find work. The second is the fact that unlike big box stores, independent businesses, for the most part, do not need to guess at their customers needs. They actually listen to what their customers have to say and adjust their business to those needs to the best of their ability. In short, they open when the customers in the past have shopped and close when the customers leave.

2. “The customer won’t shop here if the retail selection doesn’t meet their needs”

Independent businesses are no different than any other business when it comes to this point. The fact is no store can carry every product. Unlike the malls, though, most independent retail stores are willing and able to special order what their customers need. As a bookstore, we can order just about any book in print and have it in the store usually within a week. The orders we place for our customers do affect our future inventory as well. If you, as a customer, stop in our store looking for your favorite author, whom we don’t normally carry since he/she is not a big seller in our area, you can order the book and usually have it within a week. If you stop in to order every time that author comes out with a new book, pretty soon you will no longer have to order. Why? Because we are a small business and we know our customers! Before long we will automatically order that author’s newest book, even if you are the only customer that has ever purchased one, because we know you will be stopping in for it. Do the big box stores do that for only one customer?

3. “ Most customers won’t shop locally just as a matter of community pride”

It will come as no surprise to you that I disagree with this statement as well. Our community recently completed a street scape project to beautify Main Street. What purpose would there be to this type of project other than community pride? Shopping local is about so much more than community pride, though. It is about giving back to the community where we live. It is about helping our police and fire departments, about repairing our roads and keeping our parks beautiful. It is about supporting youth football and little league, giving to the schools and the libraries. Imagine what your community could do with 32% more in their budget!

I believe I addressed all of the issues I was asked to address. Now I have one question of my own which I hope someone out there can answer for me.

If our Executive Director of Economic Development can so easily come up with three reasons why the citizens in our county should NOT support our local businesses, is this really the right person to be in that position?

Open The Blinds

Sunday, November 11th, 2007 is Veterans Day. This week's blog is somewhat of a struggle. There are a lot of great war books out now and what better time to promote them than Veterans Day? We could have a giant Veterans Day sale in the store to bring in lots of customers to spend lots of money! I have seen the ads. With the market the way it is, retailers need to make sales any way they can. That's business and I understand completely.

But.....

That does not mean I agree. Veterans Day is intended to thank veterans for their service, to acknowledge that their contributions are appreciated, and to understand the fact that all those who served - not only those who died - have sacrificed and done their duty. Who am I to try and profit from another's sacrifice?

Instead, this week I would like to share something I received by e-mail, which can be found at this link. I don't know who the author is and only hope I am not breaking any copyright laws by reprinting this. If anyone has any more information about this piece, please share. This touched me deeply and I hope it does the same for you.

Open The Blinds

The other day, my nine year old son wanted to know why we were at war... My husband looked at our son and then looked at me. My husband and I were in the Army during the Gulf War and we would be honored to serve and defend our country again today. I knew that my husband would give him a good explanation. My husband thought for a few minutes and then told my son to go stand in our front living room window.

He said, "Son, stand there and tell me what you see?"

"I see trees and cars and our neighbors' houses," he replied.

"OK, now I want you to pretend that our house and our yard is the United States of America and you are President Bush."

Our son giggled and said, "OK."

"Now, son, I want you to look out the window and pretend that every house and yard on this block is a different country," my husband said.

"OK Dad, I'm pretending."

"Now I want you to stand there and look out the window and pretend you see Saddam come out of his house with his wife, he has her by the hair and is hitting her. You see her bleeding and crying. He hits her in the face, he throws her on the ground, then he starts to kick her to death. Their children run out and are afraid to stop him, they are screaming and crying, they are watching this but do nothing because they are kids and they are afraid of their father. You see all of this, son.... what do you do?"

"Dad?"

"What do you do, son?"

"I'd call the police, Dad."

"OK. Pretend that the police are the United Nations. They take your call. They listen to what you know and saw but they refuse to help. What do you do then, son?"

"Dad....... but the police are supposed to help!" My son starts to whine.

"They don't want to, son, because they say that it is not their place or your place to get involved and that you should stay out of it," my husband says.

"But, Dad... he killed her!!" My son exclaims.

"I know he did... but the police tell you to stay out of it. Now I want you to look out that window and pretend you see our neighbor who you're pretending is Saddam turn around and do the same thing to his children."

"Daddy... he kills them?"

"Yes, son, he does. What do you do?"

"Well, if the police don't want to help, I will go and ask my next door neighbor to help me stop him," our son says.

"Son, our next door neighbor sees what is happening and refuses to get involved as well. He refuses to open the door and help you stop him," my husband says.

"But Dad, I NEED help!!! I can't stop him by myself!!"

"WHAT DO YOU DO, SON?"

Our sons starts to cry.

"OK, no one wants to help you, the man across the street saw you ask for help and saw that no one would help you stop him. He stands taller and puffs out his chest. Guess what he does next, son?"

"What, Daddy?"

"He walks across the street to the old lady's house and breaks down her door and drags her out, steals all her stuff and sets her house on fire and then... he kills her. He turns around and sees you standing in the window and laughs at you. WHAT DO YOU DO?"

"Daddy...."

"WHAT DO YOU DO?"

Our son is crying and he looks down and he whispers, "I'd close the blinds, Daddy."
My husband looks at our son with tears in his eyes and asks him. "Why?"
"Because, Daddy... the police are supposed to help people who need them... and they won't help... You always said neighbors are supposed to HELP neighbors, but they won't help either... they won't help me stop him... I'm afraid.... I can't do it by myself, Daddy ...... I can't look out my window and just watch him do all these terrible things and ... and ... do nothing ... so ..... I'm just going to close the blinds ... so I can't see what he's doing . And I'm going to pretend that it is not happening."

I start to cry. My husband looks at our nine year old son standing in the window, looking pitiful and ashamed at his answers to my husband's questions. He says...."Son....."

"Yes, Daddy?"

"Open the blinds, because that man...... he's at your front door... WHAT DO YOU DO?"

My son looks at his father, anger and defiance in his eyes. He balls up his tiny fists and looks his father square in the eyes, and without hesitation he says, "I DEFEND MY FAMILY DAD!!! I'M NOT GONNA LET HIM HURT MOMMY OR MY SISTER, DAD!!! I'M GONNA FIGHT HIM, DAD, I'M GONNA FIGHT HIIM!!!!!"

I see a tear roll down my husband's cheek and he grabs our son to his chest and hugs him tight, and says.... "It's too late to fight him, he's too strong, and he's already at YOUR front door, son... you should have stopped him BEFORE he killed his wife, and his children, and the old lady across the way. You have to do what's right, even if you have to do it alone, before it's too late," my husband whispers. "THAT scenario I just gave you is WHY we are at war with Iraq. When good men stand by and let evil happen, son, THAT is the greatest mistake, believing that the atrocities in the world won't affect them. YOU MUST NEVER BE AFRAID TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT! EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO DO IT ALONE! BE PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN! BE PROUD OF OUR TROOPS!! SUPPORT THEM!!! SUPPORT AMERICA SO THAT IN THE FUTURE OUR CHILDREN WILL NEVER HAVE TO CLOSE THEIR BLINDS..."